''I wish all my kids were from one woman'' –Tuface

Popular Nigeria music iconic, Innocent Ujah Idibia, 41, also known as Tuface has opened up about his life, children music and inspiration in a recent interview published in the Published Newspaper.

The awarding singer is one of Africa’s finest and most decorated musicians. The who hails from Benue State was born in Jos, Plateau State.

The songwriter, record label owner and entrepreneur, says he’s making more music.

“At the moment, I am recording a couple of songs which I hope to release much later, so that is what I am preoccupied with now and has kept me away, ’’ he says.

Speaking about his family, Tuface expresses his displeasure at having children from multiple women.

“It is really tough to talk about it.  Honestly, when I look back and  examine that  aspect of my life, I wish it never happened. I wish all my kids came from one woman.  I love my children and there is nothing I can do to change the situation . I have moved on and I am married to one of the women who bore me kids. I no longer dwell on that issue.”

On his relationship with his children.

“I am not the strict type because I have a soft spot for kids. As such,  my children always get away with so many things when I am around. Their mothers are the ones who  discipline them. I pamper my kids,’’ he tells with delight in his voice.

On whether any of his children would follow in his footsteps? He said that some of them are already exhibiting signs of taking up music as a career and rather than discourage them, he is prepared to give them the support they need to succeed.

He said he always takes a break from his hectic schedule to relax when he is not making music and for him, this comes in different forms he joked.

“Sometimes, I could just sleep but most times, I like to hang out with my friends. We laugh, gist, crack jokes and generally have fun,’’ he says.

Speaking on the motivators in his life, Tuface says that one of the things he strongly believes in is the fact that the sky is big enough for everyone to fly as there is adequate space for all.

“It is just like the millions of stars that you see in the sky at night. Notwithstanding their number, there would still be space for more stars to shine. That is life and nature at work, so there is space for all of us.  I always say that nobody should think that he or she is luckier than everyone else in life because that is a farce. As an individual, do not think that there is no space for the next person to thrive. For me, that is how I see life.’’

Tuface dropped out of school many years ago, but reiterated that in spite of his schedule as an international musician, he looks forward to a time when he would be able to go back to earn a university degree.

“Maybe I’d give it a thought once again. I am going to keep trying and I would never give up on education’’ he said.

He argued that his role models must not necessarily be musicians.

“They are people from different professions and surprisingly  music is not one of them . I look up to many people and I do so for countless reasons” he said.

He says Senator Ben Murray-Bruce, Richard Mofe-Damijo and comedian, Ali Baba stand out for him and the reason is not farfetched as he lists some of the reasons why he regards them so.

“These are people who have remained on top of their game in their respective fields of endeavour and they are doing very well so I have tremendous respect for them. For instance, take a look at Ali Baba, he is a very humble man, yet he is on top of his game as a comedian and I always strive to do same,’’ he states.

Tuface who is not exactly a trendsetter but manages to keep it simple and sharp describe his style.

“Nothing in particular determines what I wear . I just like to dress in clean clothes and also look sharp when I go out,” he explains.

Tuface who sums up his philosophy about life in few words ‘Live and let live’ said he just wants to be remembered as that guy that came to the world to do his thing and also allowed others do their own thing, all in the spirit of one love.

  His word of advice for up-and-coming artistes.

“I just want them to know that going into music is serious business. More so, they should challenge themselves creatively and be able to explore all avenues. They must not be held back by any challenges that may come their way. When they combine all of these together, the road would be easy. On my part, I am just going to keep doing good music and keep bonding with my family. For me, I am just doing my own thing so I am not in competition with anyone. I am on my own lane and wouldn’t have it any other way,’’ he concludes.

Punch